Refusals are Redirections

Rejections are Blessing

Denis Whitley said it well. “Failure should be our teacher, not our undertaker. Failure is a delay, not defeat. It is a temporary detour, not a dead end. ”

Accepting Rejection is one of the hardest challenges in our life. We all have been through many rejections at different points in our life. It's better to understand sooner that false hope has rotten roots and nothing good can come out of it. When you peacefully accept any failure, actually you respect and favor yourself. You become a successful person when you start finding strength from your scars when you start converting any negative situations for your good and stay on the battlefield.

 I personally experienced that rejection has played a vital role in my life and rewarded me with something great in return every time.

                       Refusals  are Redirections

 Here are some hidden blessings, which you may find from the refusals:

• Clarify your Path

Many of us struggle with decision-making. People with creative minds mostly have their hands on multiple pies. But you should always think about, how thin you can spread yourself. When you get failure or lose a result of a diminished passion, you start realizing that you weren’t as passionate about this project as you first thought. As you clear your plate a little, you start making a room for what really excites you, and direct your energy toward that. Focused energy brings you the most effective result.

• Recognizing the Blind-Spot

It only takes one big accident for a driver to never forget to check their blind spot again. This could be a harsh way that opens a new door toward new learning. While there are habits and skills you haven’t yet acquired, failures remind us of habits and skills we do actually possess, but we are simply lazy in implementing them. After suffering from a major failure, you’ll never forget to check on these blind spots again.

• Pride and Arrogance Fades Away

Almost no one is immune to arrogance and pride. Failure plays a  major role in an unpleasant situation and gives birth to humility, which is the most attractive and profitable virtue anyone can have. A Rejection brings more learning and knowledge that keeps you away from the next fallback.

• Shedding the Clutter

Take a look and you’ll see who comes out of the crowd to lift you up. Everyone is busy in their world, but we always take out time for the things we value and care about. When you get failure in your relationships, you may start distancing yourself from those silent and nowhere to be seen people and divert your energy into something more productive things.

• Discovering the New Skills

Facing challenges and incurring loss compels you to gather up resources and develop a skill beyond your infinity. Negative experiences cause us to respond in some ways than we ever thought possible. Obstacles might encounter a new discovery within us, which we actually never knew.

• Grow Like an Elephant Skin

The pain brings the gain. This goes to everyone, who is pursuing their dream, who usually faces rejection and criticism. We learn in this process to use each stone properly that is thrown our way. We realize that we can’t please everyone because the issue lies more with them than with us and the impact will start to soften soon.

The bitterness brings sweetness to the victory. You will not always get what you desire, You get what you deserve and when we believe in the divine process, it rewards us always better than we desire. So, cheer up and turn every rejection into your success.

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